Can't live with 'em- Can't kill 'em!!!

I have had the chance to meet many "men".... most as FRIENDS and some as "perspective suitors" lol..... and this is what I have learned....

Men don't change.... they either ARE the person you want or they aren't- Accept it cuz you can't fight it!!

MOST men see things 2 ways... the way they know someone else will WANT them to do something and the way the will end up doing something, despite the consequences...

A man can be a blessing in a woman's life that will push her to excel or a crutch that enables her to accept underachievement as her way of life.

A "good man" is simply a man who you have not CAUGHT doing wrong YET

Not ALL men cheat, not ALL men lie, Not ALL men are bad.... But ALL MEN DO *F* UP with time

You can see how a man will treat you based on his relationship with his mother and sisters, female cousins etc... (See how he treats his X's- Cuz one day, realty says "You MAY be one of them)

A man will prove he CARES by sacrificing his "boys" for his woman, BUT she can never replace them... And once he knows he has WON her... the sacrifice will be less apparent

While it is true that everyone makes mistakes, IF you keep a man who lies, cheats, or hurts you- he WILL at some point in time do it again- because subconciensly, he feels he "got away with it before"

Every man needs his ego stroked from time to time

Every man WANTS a little bit of a "Suzzie home-maker" in his woman

If you make a man work to get what he wants he will appreciate it, If you give it to him too easily... he will use it up and spit it out...

The men who say they don't have "game" are running it as he speaks... "LACK of GAME" is his game! CATCH ON!

You can teach an old dog new tricks FASTER than you can teach a man new ways of life

Attraction IS KEY! Keep your man entertained or you WILL lose him!

A Man will not say what he wants in so many words... but his "wandering eyes" "subtle comments" "camparisons to his mother" and "need to be WITH or withOUT you" will scream very loud if you just PAY ATTENTION...

I have learned so much from all my experiences... and can you believe there is a so much I have yet to see.... Im exhausted just thinking about that!!! But at the end of the day... From now on I will make a list of all the "FLAWS" I see in a "perspective suitor" and decide if those are things I can live with.... Because the bottom line is that I can't change those things...

***On another note, Last night Zoz called me again night.... said he just wanted to check on me and see how my week was... I am not gonna lie, I was happy to hear from him, to know he actually saved my number and cared enough in that moment to use it.... it was familiar to me... at the end of a great convo I told him I had just gotten home... He said since I was home with MY MAN now he would let me go so as to avoid being disrespectful.... I didn't have it in me to correct him.... so I let it ride with a "that's kool, TTYL"--- WHAT's my PROBLEM??? thats the SECOND time I have not corrected him about that.... Oh well,... Whoa is also making his presence KNOWN.... He wants me to be HIS girl..... And I have had to push him 5 feet back many times before.... But given my current situation... I can't help but WANT to give in- The good girl in me won't allow it! Just is not having that crap! But the sad part of me is finding it harder and harder to fight it.... What's happening here? This can not be good = ( ***

I find myself not wanting to be alone these days.... I just work so much and I'm happy with that... but I want to feel like someone misses me.... like someone has thought of me- I wana see a missed call on my phone that makes me heart jump,.... I want someone to WANT my time.... Maybe I am just entering that "needy" part of my life..... Thoughts?