"Sex, The City, and Girls Weekend"

Friday night me and my girls couldn't WAIT to go see Sex and the City! We bought our tickets from Wednesday and planned to get Glamorous for this occasion! And so we did! We were all in amazing dresses and by far the BEST looking girls in the theater! We actually got there an hour early and were second in a line that soon wrapped around the halls..... But it was amazing! We had all left our "men" behind and were ready to gossip, vent, laugh, and relax without them for a few days....

Whoa and I were supposed to link up but never got around to it and in an effort to "walk my damn talk" I made sure not to stress it.... sure enough.... in the midst of my movie fun he was looking for me... making plans to link up the next morning before he had to go out of town for the weekend.... Poor thing was still a little sick so I couldn't help but WANT to go take care of him (run him a hot bath, hot tea, wrap him up , give him some soup and rub his back till he fell asleep) but for the sake of "being stronger women" I made sure to resist the urge and told HIM what to do to feel better in the morning...

Saturday morning he wrote to tell me he wanted to see me ASAP since he was leaving for TAMPA's show.... so I went down to MIA to see my boo! I got there and he had gone to get food so I had to wait outside for 25 min since he forgot to give me the key he was talking about.... I was a lil upset but we talked and got everything settled.... He delayed his plans 3 hours so he would have more time to hang with me which I was very impressed by AND he asked me some very interesting questions... we spoke of kids before but when I asked when he wanted to settle down.... he said .... "I wanna be married by next December..." I was in shock to hear that because it's pretty specific but he also said he feels like he's heading in the right direction for it.... and asked about US being together and how I would at least know my husband can take care of me... It just gives me hope that perhaps he's taking me seriously and this battle is finally coming to an end....

After hanging in Miami for the day for part 2 of "girls weekend" I went home to sleep and boy was I tired! So I got a call from Delanie Sunday morning which started out with "I saw Whoa last night" I was totally blown since I was TOLD he would be in Tampa and got all the facts.... I was about to lose my calm when Delanie said "Don't say anything, he was with his manager and NO girls, and he spoke to me and it doesn't seem like he did anything wrong... see if he tells you on his own" So I took her good advice and waited..... Needless to say I was concerned but didn't let that ruin the rest of my day.... we went to the Shore club and chillaxed.... I saw MANY of the guys I used to hang around and in my tiny lil bikini I was getting some good attention... It was nice... and the remedy to a bruised ego is always a healthy dose of admiration.... So I indulged myself a bit while not giving out my number or getting close to ANY guys..... There was a soccer player and his whole crew who were gawking, random ppl who came to ask about our evening plans, a football player who was clearly as into himself as he would be any female (total turn off) and a few others.....

Whoa hadn't called all day so I decided to be my usual and sent him a message:

"I love you- I love u- I luv you- I luv u- Eye.Heart.You

No matter how I say it, think it, or write it,... I still can't shake it! And I hope ur experiencing the same occurrence"

A couple hours later he called me and said he was up the street... he only had one hour he could steal from studio time but he wanted to drive up to see me.... J-Mo was at the house too so he was there when Whoa got there.... I'm glad that at LEAST he knows he is around a lot more because all my friends had an issue with the fact that they weren't seeing him much..... I was sooo happy- He's been doing that a lot lately and I love getting in every min I can with him! I had a surprise for him too.... I had gotten him an ice cream cake and decorated it for his birthday with little music note candles... HE LOVED IT! thought it was adorable that I would do that for him.... He was thinking of me too cuz he brought me dinner and ice cream so we could have desert together... lol... He's so thoughtful! He also explained the WHOLE not being in Tampa thing which made sense because he actually told me in advance..... I just didn't remember... I never let on that Delanie had told me anything.... ;) And he wound up sleeping over!!

It's so funny that he is so comfortable staying with me now.... like, he has a toothbrush and everything... I buy the things he likes.... And he even said "we live in Miami don't we" as if I live WITH him in his condo- he's really only 25 min away but.... ya.... I'm happy he's making so many efforts! This week I will be taking a day off to go to his place and he is supposed to cook for me!!! I'm super excited about that one! Tomorrow is his birthday so hopefully I'll see him a little bit..... He said he got me something but I guess I'll get that when I go to his house this week! (I think it's prefume)